My life is full of children, family, home, land, bees, work, love, laughter and everyday life.
My Monthly Calendar. Because my life is too crazy to keep track of without it.
My husbands iphone. It's applications are really useful and easy to get too!
Our Quicken finance software. Because it's nice to remember that you actually had money before paying the bills.
Coupon ads. They are the best way to save at the grocery store and finding them is like a scavenger hunt.
DVR. Because even a homemaker needs a break when the kids are asleep.
Oh, thats so hard! There are memories in those clothes! I think your wise saving an outfit or 2 for them. You know, as soon as you let go of all those baby things you will needing more!
Oh goodness, we must be related. I find it extremely hard to get rid of any of my daughter’s toys, clothes, or books. Just this morning my husband suggested I rid out her books. and I told him I highly doubt there were any to get rid of. I mean yes, one day she’ll be too old to enjoy “Cuddles the Cow” and it was only $1 from a dollar store, but I’ll never forget about how many nights we read that before bed. There are so many sweet memories tied up in things to just throw them away or donate.
I am the same way! I keep looking at my girl bins and thinking… “it’s time to get rid of these.” Then I turn and run as fast as I can so I do not have to part with the memories. That’s really what I’m holding onto: memories.
I remember packing up Elena’s things when she turned One last October. We hadn’t yet begun our discussion of a Second, and I guess I assumed we’d be given a little boy next time around and I would never again see the darling little outfits I loved so much.
But your mother is right: Clothes shouldn’t hold sentimental value. And they don’t. But rather, they hold the memory of our darling ones wearing something that we enjoyed picking out, and dressing them in, and photographing. That is what I miss when I put away my most treasured outfits. Especially the few that I knit myself.
Blessed be we are having another little girl in January, so although I will get to use all the outfits one last go-round, I will also have to grieve the “putting away” all over again.
Basically, what I’m saying in (barely) 100 words or less, Mary, is this: I hear ya purrin’ kitten. I’m pickin’ up what you’re puttin’ down. I feel ya.
Cheers!
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